It was so sudden

Nobody expected the day to came so early.

12th October 2008 11.50am

My Big Aunt called and asked my mum to fetched her go out. Since our family's friend was at my house, we did not direct go and fetched my BA. And while she was waiting for us, she went to my Popo's room and checked on her why the whole morning she didn't saw her. She saw that Popo was lying on the bed and she seems to have her sleep but somehow she doesn't looks like sleeping since her pillow was not put on her head and one of her stocking was dropping out. BA sensed that something was wrong.

12th October 2008 12.15pm

BA called my mum to went down immediately. I went down too. I saw Popo was having difficultly in her breathing. And her saliva was coming out each time she breathed out. We called her and even pinch her. To make her wake up. Nothing can do to wake her up. My mum dialed 999. We shout by her ear. She seems to have some conscious. Just some groan sound.

12th October 2008 12.35pm

Ambulance arrive. We asked what happened to her. The nurse replied that maybe her sugar level was too low. They carried her into the ambulance. She was peeing in her pants since she did not wake up for the whole day.

12th October 2008 1.20pm

She woke up. She looks so energtic. I thought she can discharged the next day but the doctor said still need to stay for checkup.

12th October 2008 6.30pm

Visit her again.

13th October 2008 7pm

We went to visit Popo. She was lying there and patting her big fat stomach. Saying there was a lot of gas inside. Feed her ate her dinner and chat with her.

13th October 2008 7.50pm

We were going and told her we will be visitting her next day. I thought she will be discharged the next day.

14th October 2008 7.30am

Received a called from my 2nd Aunt. Saying that hospital called and asked us to go. My mum drop me at the waiting place for my company's bus and went straight to the hospital.

14th October 2008 8.03am

Received 2 missed call from my mum. Called back to her and ask her what happened. She told me Popo can't make it any longer. I was total in shock. She said maybe she was having heart attack and having difficulty in breathing. She said I doens't need to apply leave. I thought it was not so serious.

14th October 2008 8.15am

Called my sis and told her Popo was having difficulty in breathing. My sis was also in a shock.

14th October 2008 8.30am

Discussed with my sis whether wanna apply for leave on that day.

14th October 2008 8.45am

My sis said she don't know. Up to me.

14th October 2008 9.15am

My sis called and told me Popo pass away. Tears came out and I forced it to stop cause I was in the office. Went to the toilet and called Ah Fai to come and fetched me home.

14th October 2008 10.30am

Reached home. Coffin car arrived.

Everything went back to the same as Gong Gong. Gong gong pass away was due to cancer. And because he was old and weak. But Popo was in a different case. She still can lived up to another 10 years I think. She was just getting weaker and weaker. And she was taking her medicine for her heart attack for the past 10 years. Her death reason was this : Acute Coranary Syndrome.

I was just starting to treat her more nicer and visit her often and this news came to me. This news was really a totally shock for the whole family.

Gong Gong and Popo will be always remember in deep of my heart.

May both of you bless us all.